Tending the Fire of Erotically Passionate Relationships – Xtraordinary-Relationships

Tending the Fire of Erotically Passionate Relationships

Keeping sex, pleasure & erotic passion Alive in intimate Committed Relationships

A fire does not start on its own, or keep burning. Without the needed materials for combstion – dry fuel, a spark, oxygen and heat to keep it going – too little or too much of either, risks somethering the flame.

Erotic passion and sexual energy in relationship are similar.

Without the necessary fuel, spark, ongoing erotic heat and oxygen to produce long lasting sexual passion -the erotic flame that once was, will falter, diminshing to such an extent that no amount of fanning will ‘get the fire going again’.

To keep the erotic passion burning in relationship, a clear intent from both parties to tender the fire of passion is essential.

Passionate erotic sexual fire, in along term relationship, does not ‘just happen’. It needs to be tended to. Nurtured & fanned occasionally, with a liberal dose of a flammable material.

How do you do that?

How do people in committed relationships keep the sex alive, when there are so many competing expectations and demands on our lives?

The daily commute takes longer, careers demand more and more of our time and energy, the stresses of paying the mortgage/rent, organising the kids, kids sport and childminding, the demands of elderly parents or parents that are demanding, the feeling of not being supported, understood or appreciated in our relationship.

Not to mention the exhaustion of all this coming together at the end of another day, with so many obligations, commitments and the relentless demands of being a partner and/or parent-‘and now you want MORE of me!

Something that gave us so much pleasure(and still can) when we were single and in the beginning, has now transformed into being another pressure filled, stress causing, performance demanding obligation, that is hard to differentiate from all the other demands on my being.

Many ask themselves. Is this really what monogamy looks & feels like?
Is this it?

If you do not start talking, talking risks, being more real & honest with yourself and each other, and making the effort to make sex worthwhile again. Then yes, this is it.

Is that what you want?

If you want:

sex to be FUN again
more pleasure in your life
to go deeper into the ways erotic pleasure can bring you closer than ever before
to feel more erotically ALIVE in your relationships
ways to reconnect and be closer to your partner again

The join us for the next FREE mini-workshop, which will give a little taste of what is in the next upcoming series of one day workshops. Or, just book your place in the series HERE

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In this series of One-day workshops you will learn:

How to co-create the conscious relatioships container which is the foundation for more honest, authentic, passionately erotic relationships
The importance of putting aside time to connect sexually with your partner
Tools & skills to create more dynamic relationships
How to set up the foundation for a better relationship next time
How to re-set what your relationship is now
Waysto work postively with the deep emotions, that being in relationship, often triggers

This Series of One-day workshops is ideal for:

Couples wanting to go deeper together
Singles wanting ways to maximise the possibility the next relationship will be better than the last
Couples wanting to rekindle the passion of old

CLICK HERE to find out when the next FREE Tending the Fire of Erotically Passionate Relationships Mini Workshop is on

Frequently Asked Questions

Q? Will I be able to come late?

A. We encourage to give yourself extra time to travel to the venue so you can arrive early. We know ‘life gets in the way sometimes’ and circumstances outside our control can make us late. If you are going to be late please notify us AS SOON AS YOU KNOW, with a phone call.

Q? Is it OK to come if I’m single? Or, part of a couple?

A. Of course!
This event is suitable for couples and singles.

Q? I am coming with my partner, can we do any excercise together?

A. As a couple you will be given an opportunity to work with your partner, and to have some experience with other people – which will enhance your relationship and communication skills.
Our request and challenge to you both, is to step outside your comfort zones and work with other people – together and alone. Remember you both are at choice and we encourage to make the choices that are most empowering for you both.
We will inform you of the excercise and activities that would be best done together to enhance your relationship.

Q? My partner and I are(or one of us) is considering ending the relationship. Is this a good workshop for us?

A. No.
This series of workshops are designed to strengthen existing relationships or provide the skills and tools needed to help make the next one better. If your relationships ‘is on the rocks’ there is a goodchance these workshops will highlight the differences and incompatibility that is between you.
We recommend seeing a couples relationship therapist first, then coming when you are more of a team and strong together.

Q? Will I be partnered with people I do not like, or want to be with?

A. As a singleperson, or part of a couple, you are always at choice with what you do and who you ‘partner with’.
Having said that, it’s important to remember we are all humans with feelings and before you decide not to work with someone, before you know them, just feel into what that would feel like for yourself if someone took that position with you.

Q? What if this is my first time at a personel growth type event?

A. We welcome you!
Our aim is to provide a safe place for everyone to have an experience that is empowering and authentic. You will be supported to expand your comfort zone in the way that suits you best. There will people who are first timers or who consider themselves beginners, as well as others who have lots of experience attending events such as this.

Q? What should I bring?

A. Please wear loose comfortable clothing, in layers, and bring some water to drink. If you have a favourite shawl or scarf to wear when it is a bit cool, bring that too.
Writing materials if needed.
A big smile is always welcome too!

Q? Can I pay at the door on the day of the workshop?

A. We encourage participants to pay prior to the start of the workshop.
If this is not possible, we request you pay a deposit before the workshop begins and make arrangements to pay the outstanding amount via cash or EFT before the workshop begins in the morning.

Q? Do yo offer concessions?

A. Concessions are available to those genuinely in need. If you are a concession card holder, unemployed, or having trouble making ends meet, please talk to us about how we can assist you. However, if you do not fit these criteria, please do not ask for a concession, as refusal can offend.

Please Note:

As part of our desire to constantly improve the quality of the information and the way the information is delivered, we will at times take audio recordings of events.These audio recordings are set up to record the facilitator’s voice and are used in improving our workshops and to produce new materials and events.

Participants voices, if recorded incidentally as part of this program, are usually in audible or indecipherable.